There are many words in our everyday language, each one with it's own meaning. Some of them are called "good" others "bad". I believe that an important aspect in our ascension and in the twin flame journey is reprogramming our mind. Yes, because all that we know is something that we absorbed by parents, instruction, society, religion etc. including the meaning that each word has. Did you know that the majority of our belief derivate from our childhood? Specifically in the period of 3-6 years old, douring which we act like sponges; we absorbe everything that we are being taught. This means that there are programs that are running in our mind today that are conditioning our life. Maby you are 20,45,33 years old now, it doesen't matter; you are thinking like a 4-5 years old child! Please understand that this is not an insult. What i want to say is that if your dad told you that "money are bad" when you were 4 years old, you are still thinking that today because your father imprinted that in your mind. Same for all the great themes of life like God, love, sex, relationships. It is important to analize periodiaclly what we believe and let go of what is not true for us; when we find resistence it means that there is a program that is blocking the flow of energy, preventing us from thinking and acting as we want. Ask yourself "what do i think about God?" "what do i think about love?."
Regarding power, same story. They told us that it is bad because is something that corrupts, it's dirty and evil. This is the consequence of what we see in our society; yes because those "in power" are always those "above others", those that "control others". Being powerful doesn't mean being aggressive, imposing one's will or controlling others; this is just the distorted mening that we have in our "male" dominant world. Yes because to feel important,we need to be above other beings, and that those same beings recognize and tell us how much we are important. This is just the ego conception of power. When we allow others so give us a value, when we need to feel better than another to be important, we are only giving away what we think we have: power! Yes, because we are only showing our lack of self-esteem, and self worth. No, we don't need to put ourselves on a pedestal, we don't need someone to understand that we are worthy of love. You see, this is just another program that we all have taken from childhood. Our parents taught us that we are bad when they say that we are bad and that we are good when they say that we are good. This has two consequences: first we always need someonelse to feel worthy, we need other people approuval and without it we are nothing. Second we tend to do what others expect from us, what we must, not what we want. Why? Because you are a good child if you do what your dad tells you to do and you are a bad one if you don't!
First rule in taking back your power: never allow someone to give you a value! Never allow yourself to become a lable or you will only diminish yourself! You are worthy whoever you are, whatever you have/have not done. Test yourself, show yourself who you are: you are beautiful, intelligent and divine, you don't need other people approuval: give yorself the love/approuval you seek from others! Sit quietly, decide and acknowdlege what is true for you, what you belive in, tell yourself that it has a meaning and a logical sense FOR YOU. Then allow others to be free and think what they want, it's theyr right. At the same time learn to stand up for yourself, for what you know to be true. Never allow fear or other people beliefs to prevent yourself from speaking and living your thruth! Believe me i lived in denial because i was afraid to be ridiculed, don't do that! It's a bad place to live in!
Undestand that you are the ONLY creator of your reality: the frequency you are vibrating at is attracting everything in your life: people, situations, circumstance which can be bad or good, depending on how much your frequency is high. The higher the better. Your thoughts, emotions, actions determine your frequency: love is the highest frequency in the universe (the power of love, indeed). When we vibrate high enough we will not experience "bad things" anymore. Why? Because we are no longer creating them! Low vibrating thoughts (judgements) and emotions (envy, fear, hate) have as consequence a low vibrating life. If we truly, truly, truly, allow ourselves to understand this, we will recognize our power: everything depends on us. Therfore why blaming others? Never blame! You are responsable for what is/is not happening in your life! ONLY YOU! When we blame someone we give away our power: it's like if we say "i feel bad because of you". In other words we are saying "you can control how i think/act and how i feel" which is totally an illusion! There is no one in this universe that can control you! You are, as IAM, the highest authority in this universe! You are a free, soverign being and there is nothing and none that can make you do anything WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION! (you have a free will) Blaming, is giving your permission! It's a self-created cage, a thought in our mind! Nothing more than that: change how/what you think and change your reality.
We can't control another person, we can only control how we react to that person. And when we don't hold our space and love vibration, when we take things personally and we react form an ego perspective, we give away our power! Someone upsets you? Instead of allowing that person to disturb your inner peace, just say NO. This is hard to do, expecially for empaths but it is vital if we want to keep our boundaries intact. Saing no to what brings you down is saing yes to you. Saing no to the toxic relationships you may have is saying yes to you. Stop to give permission to anyone to acess your energy, just say NO!
Don't compare yourself to others! We are all unique, and if we are unique, what is the point of comparing? Compare yourself only to...you! Exactly! Ask yourself "how much did i grow?" "What i have done today to improve myself?" "Did i do something to manifest my dreams?" "Hey look that was me one year ago! Gosh! I am so much better now!" That is what we should do! Let others do theyr thing and let yourself be free. Stop to be so worried about what others say about you: do not build a resistence just let them think what they want, do not take it personally. They are doing what they are doing because of what is going on within theyr reality, within theyr inner word and mind, not because of you.
If we all take this steps in our everyday life we will take back our power, the real one. When we take it back we have the energy necessary to do what we came here to do because we can focus only on what really matters. Shift the meaning that this word has for you. To me, power is good. Being love is being powerful. Being powerful is being soverign and free. Be your own hero!
This work by Michele Cornacchia is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivatives 4.0 International License.
Based on a work at http://www.iammysoul.com/.