Today we honor the woman, male and female. You don’t need to be a woman to unleash the feminine within you and by the way this is not about labels. Look the yin yang symbol: the light has the dark inside and vice versa. The male has the female inside and vice versa. For too long in our world the divine feminine expression of God, the Goddess, has been suppressed resulting in a cold, cynic, calculator society. Even the masculine energy has been distorted: it’s just a shadow of it’s original brightness, an harsh dominating asshole model. That is why in relationships, most of us, tend to be very controlling. We need to be above the other person, we need to affirm our superiority, to feel that we own him/her. We are frightened because if we set our partner free, if he/she changes we could lose them and we really don’t want to suffer! This is why man have that need to treat woman poorly, if you are not hard you are not a man right? In the same way girls accept passively this, because they see it everywhere in our society, they are led to believe that is normal. This is such a fake role model and we need to change it. Truth is that woman need someone to make them feel safe, cared, protected. An open, honest partner that doesn’t lack of integrity. Man need a muse, an inspiration a catalyst and of course they need to feel loved and protected too. Do not make the mistake to search love outside you. Give yourself the love/approval you seek from others! Just be and shine your light in the world. You can’t find outside what is found inside, you can’t love another if you don’t love yourself first. How can you give what you don’t have (love)? Outside you can only find the perfect being that mirrors back who you are (love). It’s not a matter of filling a void, you just share your completeness. Your cup is now filled and overflowing, so you simply share that! How do you find this completeness? Open up to the feminine! Do not be scared to look deeply into your heart, because that is what the goddess is all about. Be aware of what you feel. She is creative, she is nurturing, she is loving, she is the lighthouse pointing at your real self, she is the muse, she is you! Yes the whole you! She is that part of you that whispers the need to be honest with your feelings, to explore the depth and intensity of them. Be loving, be creative, inspire, create, shine and you will awaken this force within you. Find your inner balance, only when you are fully aware of the complete being that you are here and now, you will find your true love “outside.” Like the dance of the moon and sun, feminine and masculine, melting in a solar eclipse, the universe reminds us the importance of allowing in our hearts this energy. Woman need to find again theyr role and power without feeling guilty for it. You are amazing special beings and we need you. Man have to realize that true power resides not in aggressiveness and hardness, but in allowing their hearts to speak and their souls, the self, to listen. In this way we will find the focus, clarity, protection, movement, typical of the divine masculine. We are here to restore our original self and the only way to do that is to become aware again of our completeness. The key to access the inner sanctuary of our being is love and love is the feminine; that energy is inside both man and woman. Do not be scared to feel: emotions are what makes you alive, without them you are a walking dead. Honor your inner woman: go past the mind, the sparkle within you will find, your heart is calling for you, cause you, the soul, want to know the love that you are. Open the gate.
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Based on a work at http://www.iammysoul.com/.