We can observe the life we are living with, mainly, two different kinds of focus/mind-set. "Everything is being done TO me" and "everything is being done FOR/BY me." If we approach life, if we create, from the first kind of focus, we live the life of the victim. We tend to react because we perceive that everything is happening outside of ourselves, that something, someone, is dong something TO us. Therefore we need to do something, reacting, to fix that thing, that person, that situation in order to keep us from experiencing what we don't want; pain. We are a passive participant of our experience on Earth, we give away our power and we tend to blame others; "this is happening because of him/her/this/that" which, in turn, reinforces the idea that we are victims. In this state we can never live relaxed, in the flow, because we are always in tension, ready to respond to the next threat. As if it is not enough, being victims makes us dependent to the approval and validation of others, which means that we are going to feel bad when that approval is not present, and super awesome when is present. Like a leaf dragged by the wind. Instead we should learn to stand tall, firm and grounded like a tree, ready to speak our truth with confidence.
When we switch focus, and we take responsibility for our life, when we let go of the fear of using our own power, something changes. If we truly believe that "everything is being done FOR me" we can approach life in a more lightened way. Worryless. Fearless. We trust the universe, which is always "conspiring" to make our dreams come true, we let go of doubts and we see our challenges under a different light. They are there to teach us something important because we asked for them, they are there FOR us! They make us grow, they bring light-data necessary for the expansion of the Self. Being a conscious creator starts when you realize that you are the only cause of yourself and your life. The only responsible. You are creating everything with your thoughts, your actions, your emotions. You trick yourself, believing that someone has power over you! There can not be such thing, it is against the most basic law of the universe, and we make it real believing in it! So we create something unreal and we live in a nightmare, out of balance and our of the flow! Remember: since we are energy, we are sending constantly a signal in the universe: we are attracting what is a match to that frequency. Are you vibrating at a fear level? You are attracting people, situations, circumstances that will make you feel fearful. If you are vibrating at a self-love vibration... well you got it! You are going to be surrounded by people that loves you, you are going to be free, not in need of the validation of otherse because now you now that you are enough! Therefore we understand that everything is being don BY us! No victimhood! I know, it's hard in this world of duality, with this fake separation we experience, we can easily be tricked, or trick ourselves, that there is someone more powerful/important than you. But, when you remember that everything is being done FOR you, because you asked the best out of this life, even if you may don't know it yet, you can begin to live and trust. You are a soverign being! This is the unbreakable law of the universe!
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